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Ilham Usman

Finding Beautiful

Personal growth · June 27, 2020

100 Self Improvement Tips That Will Make Your Life Peaceful And Positive

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In today’s world, having a positive mindset and a life compass is extremely important. It allows you to see the different possibilities and find more opportunities to get to where you want to be in life.

Whether it’s in your career, business, side hustle, or relationships; people with a positive mindset always seem to figure out how to make things happen, despite impossible odds.

There are a lot of hurdles in your career, relationships, dealing with people, mental health, and achieving your goals that can only be achieved with a certain attitude and response to some conditions, these tips will help you navigate through.

It’s a long list though, so you should save it to Pinterest so you can go back to it later.

100 Tips That Will Make Your Life Peaceful And Positive

  1. Sometimes you must let go and dare to do it because life is too short to wonder what could have been
  2.     Forget all the reasons why it won’t work out and believe the one reason why it will
  3.     Don’t worry about what others think. Don’t let it bother you, stay strong, move on
  4.     Always say what you mean and mean what you say
  5.     Express how you feel and don’t ever apologize for being real
  6.     If you’re looking for your purpose in life, just follow your passion, it will lead you to your purpose
  7.     It’s never too late to be what you might have been
  8.     Don’t worry about what people think about you, they’re too busy wondering what you think about them
  9.     Never let a stumble in the road be the end of the journey
  10. When someone does something wrong, don’t forget the things they’ve done right
  11. Whatever you decide to do make sure it makes you happy
  12. You’ll end up being disappointed if you think people will do for you as you do for them. Not everyone has the same heart as you
  13. If it takes less than 5 minutes to do it, do it immediately. Your life will become instantly much more organized and productive
  14. Forgive people and move on. Don’t do it for them, do it for you
  15. Stop worrying about people who aren’t worried about you
  16. Don’t waste your words on people who deserve your silence.
  17. Sometimes the most powerful thing to say is to say nothing at all
  18. If you don’t ask for it, you won’t get it. You can get a lot more in life than you think by simply asking
  19. Remember, a good beginning makes a better end
  20. When you realize each day is a chance for a new beginning, it really changes your perspective
  21. The Comfort zone is a beautiful place, but nothing grows there
  22. Life is all about taking risks. If you never take risks then you’ll never know what you’re capable of
  23. Actions prove who someone is, words prove who they want to be
  24. Mistakes are proof that you’re trying
  25. Deal with your problems before they deal with your happiness
  26. You can’t start a new chapter in your life if you keep repeating the last one
  27. Flow more, force less. You’re trapped now. This will free you
  28. Never give your secret to anyone because if you can’t keep it to yourself, don’t expect others to
  29. Sometimes there is no next time. Sometimes it’s now or never
  30. Never give up on something you really want. It’s difficult to wait, but worse to regret
  31. You’re not too sensitive. You’re not overreacting. If it hurts you, it hurts you
  32. Don’t fear change, you may lose something good, but you may also gain something better
  33. Don’t promise when you’re happy, don’t reply when you’re angry and don’t decide when you’re sad
  34. The important thing is to learn a lesson each time you lose
  35. It’s better to look ahead and prepare than to look back and regret
  36. Don’t be quick to believe what you hear because lies spread faster than the truth
  37. The less you respond to negative people, the more peaceful your life will become
  38. Accept what you can’t change
  39. Never leave something good to find something better, because once you realize you had the best, the best has found better
  40. It’s okay to struggle but it’s never okay to give up on yourself
  41. Don’t ask someone if they’re lying, a liar will keep lying and an honest person will be offended
  42. Do it for you
  43. A year from now everything you are stressing about won’t even matter
  44. It’s okay to be scared, being scared means you’re about to do something really, really brave
  45. Doubts kill more dreams than failure ever will
  46. If it doesn’t open…..it’s not a door
  47. Be careful of your words they can only be forgiven but not forgotten
  48. You have to be odd to be number one
  49. Let your smile change the world, don’t let the world change your smile
  50. Nobody is too busy, it’s just a matter of priorities
  51. It’s better to be alone than in bad company
  52. We either make ourselves miserable or strong. They both take the same effort
  53. The person who tries to keep everyone happy  often ends up the loneliest
  54. If you really want to do something you’ll find a way, if not you’ll find an excuse
  55. Sometimes you have to do what’s best for you and your life, not what’s best for everyone else
  56. Sometimes you have to get knocked down lower than you’ve been, to stand taller than you were
  57. Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument
  58. Don’t trust words, trust actions
  59. Don’t chase other people. Work hard and be yourself, under these two principles, the right people will find their way into your life
  60. Never let fear decide your future
  61. Pain changes people, it makes them trust less, overthink more and shut people out
  62. In the end, the only person you can count on is yourself
  63. Overthinking corrupts the mind, destroys happiness and creates problems that never existed in the first place
  64.   If you don’t like where you are, change it. You are not a tree
  65.   Change your thoughts and you will change your world
  66.   You did not wake up today to be mediocre
  67.   You are a product of your decision
  68.   Visualize who you want to be, then work for it
  69.   If you begin, you will win
  70. You can’t learn anything from being perfect
  71. Not everything will go as expected. This is why you need to drop expectations and go with the flow of life
  72. Don’t depend too much on anyone in this world because even your shadow leaves you when you’re in darkness
  73. Don’t take things so personal, what people say about you is a reflection of them, not you
  74. Everything happens for a reason
  75. Staying quiet doesn’t mean you’ve got nothing to say. It means you don’t think they’re ready to hear your thoughts
  76. When you’re ready to let go of the past, something better comes along
  77. What you will allow is what will continue
  78. Stay away from people who make you feel like you aren’t worth their time
  79. Letting go is hard but sometimes holding on is harder.
  80. Patience is one of the important steps to success. Never rush into something you want done right
  81. Don’t confuse your path with your destination. Just because its stormy now, doesn’t mean you aren’t headed for sunshine
  82. Confidence is the surest key to success, fake it till you make it
  83. Do what you fear and fear disappears
  84.   If it’s still in your mind, it’s worth taking the risk
  85.   Want it more than you are afraid of it and you will get it done
  86.   Soak in positivity and blessings
  87.   Always be your biggest fan
  88.   Never announce your next move before taking it
  89.   If your dreams don’t scare you, they’re not big enough
  90.   You must be willing to fail and fail again until you get things right
  91.   Hang around 9 successful people and you’re going to be the 10th
  92.   Sometimes it takes 10 years to get to the 1 year that will change your life
  93.   If it got a little harder that means you leveled up
  94.   Someone wants to be you right now.
  95. When you say yes to others, make sure you’re not saying no to yourself
  96. You are today where your thoughts have brought you; you will be tomorrow where your thoughts take you
  97. You don’t have to have it all figured out to move forward
  98. If it’s meant to be, it will be
  99. Your struggle today will make your strength tomorrow
  100.                 Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do.

On a final note:

Having a successful mindset is believing the positive possibilities for yourself. This is not blind optimism and does not mean you should believe that you can do everything that you don’t have the strengths for. It takes a lot of practice to adopt a success mindset for those who don’t already have one.

If you believe you can change your mindset, then you can start by taking a look at yourself and figuring out the steps you can take to adapt your mind toward a more successful way of thinking that will directly help you achieve your goals and live a positive and peaceful life.


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  1. m says

    June 29, 2020 at 2:57 pm

    Those mindsets will take us to better places for sure! Girl empowering is so important. Enjoy your summer!
    M | fleetinggyal.blogspot.com

    Reply
  2. One Way to Wanderland says

    July 2, 2020 at 3:10 pm

    Great advice! Need to use some of these myself 🙂

    Reply
    • Ilham says

      July 6, 2020 at 11:32 am

      Im glad you liked them

      Reply
  3. Nancy says

    July 3, 2020 at 7:32 pm

    I love all of these mindsets that you have shared!! Totally agree with them, we need to be the best version of ourselves. We need to plan ahead and always push through the different challenges and setbacks that life gives us. Thanks for sharing!

    Nancy ✨ exquisitely.me

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    • Ilham says

      July 6, 2020 at 11:31 am

      Im really glad you like them

      Reply
  4. Kyra | lovekyra.co.uk says

    July 5, 2020 at 9:37 am

    Love these quotes! So many inspirational words to totally change our mindsets! Will be saving these to read on a bad day!
    -Kyra xx

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    • Ilham says

      July 6, 2020 at 11:31 am

      They really would help Kyra xx

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  5. Emily says

    July 5, 2020 at 10:45 am

    Great advice and lovely post!

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    • Ilham says

      July 6, 2020 at 11:30 am

      Im glad you like it

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  6. Marisa Ferreira says

    July 6, 2020 at 10:37 pm

    “The less you respond to negative people, the more peaceful your life will become”
    I’ve recently been doing this and it is so fleeting! Thanks for this.

    Reply
    • Ilham says

      July 7, 2020 at 1:49 pm

      That’s so true. I’m glad you like it Marisa

      Reply
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    July 7, 2020 at 5:20 am

    this is such a motivating post! thank you for sharing x

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    • Ilham says

      July 7, 2020 at 1:49 pm

      You’re welcome Page

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  8. Roni says

    July 7, 2020 at 12:30 pm

    This was really motivating to read! Thank you for posting

    Roni🖤
    http://www.myelevatedexistence.com

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    • Ilham says

      July 7, 2020 at 1:49 pm

      You’re welcome Roni, I’m glad you liked it

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